You would think that if nothing else, women would at least be able to live in their own skin with no outward input.
But noooo.
We can’t even exist without someone finding something to comment on.
But that stops today.
From this point on, we are addressing all the unsolicited opinions head on and putting people in their places if they try to combat us.
Stop telling women what to do with their bodies.
You are not the one who has to live in it day in and day out, so your opinion is irrelevant.
Don’t know what I mean?
Allow me to give you a few examples.
Stop telling women what size they should be.
We’ve already covered body image before, so I won’t expound on this particular matter too much, just know that you aren’t worthy enough to deem whether or not a woman’s body type is acceptable.
Know your place.
Stop condemning women for getting pregnant “too early.”
For one, your definition of too early may not even be plausible, and even if it is, it takes two to tango.
If she wants to keep that baby, don’t resent her for it, she has every right.
Sidenote: Isn’t it funny how a lot of people who resent young mothers and try to keep them from even having the baby want to smother that same baby as soon as they’re born?? And then have the audacity to still resent the mother for getting pregnant… Ugh, a whole mess.
On the flip side, stop rushing women into having kids.
They may not even want kids in the first place, and that is their right as well.
Obviously with all these horrific childhood cases we see on a daily basis all over the world, we should know that everyone is not meant to be a parent.
And furthermore, that woman may not be able to carry children.
I can’t count the amount of times I’ve see a “when are you gonna have some babies” followed up with a “I actually just had a miscarriage” or “I’m infertile.”
This is why we need to mind the business that pays us.
Stop telling women when they should and shouldn’t give themselves to a man.
Whether a woman wants to date around or if she wants to date herself, that’s her decision.
Women are not mindless objects that need instructions, we can make our own decisions.
It’s so disgusting how most women are condemned for dating at a young age and then once they hit a certain point, society flips the switch and wants them married with 2.5 kids and a white picket fence in 2 years.
Naturally with this ideology, women will face some sort of societal shame because life just doesn’t happen this way more often than not.
It is totally unrealistic to go from “you don’t need to be dating” to “you need to settle down” just like that.
We don’t place these expectations on men, so I’m gone need for everyone to reciprocate that same energy with women.
Stop telling women what to do regarding their health.
We know our bodies and don’t have to have a fancy degree to know when something is off.
Rest and water are not the answer to everything.
With Black Women especially, we are not taken seriously enough and in turn our mortality rates are skyrocketing.
Stop belittling our pain.
Until you have 80 mL of blood coming out of you every month or have to push human beings out of tiny holes, I don’t want to hear the word “dramatic” in your vocabulary.
You know what I mean now?
I’m sure you get the point.
Moral of the story is this: Stop telling women what to do with their bodies because you don’t know everything, and you don’t have to live in it.
And that’s it, and that’s all.
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